hi there. Oh man I know what those gut punches feel like....that really stinks. But trust me, he isn't sure about what he's doing or he'd have done it and cut you out of his life already.
Here are the basics that most people ignore for 6 to 12 months post bomb drop:
1. Detach. What he says doesn't affect the way you feel, your judgement, your words or actions. 2. Don't believe anything he says and only half of what he does. 3. GAL. Do things that you like to do. Tell us what this looks like. 4. Be patient. Be a good listener. Don't pursue someone who is stating they don't want you. 5. Be attractive.
Not giving up is going to seem like giving up at first. But putting pressure on him to change his mind is not going to work either.
Stay on incognito mode for this website, that's what I do.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
