Originally Posted by Newbie20
Too bad you and I can't talk. We have a lot of the same issues, mine didn't havethe OW. I appreciate your input into mine by the way. Mine wasn't the prize hog at the fair either, not by a long shot. But seen through the lens of the sudden and ultimate loss, amazing how we reframe them. Just like they rewrite history when they decide to leave.


Agreed. Yes, the rewriting history was a shock to me. I felt like we had lived two different versions; and in his version I was the villain.


the best apology is changed behavior.
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me: 45 h: 48
m: 23 T: 26
DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11
BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016
BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016
BD3: H wants a D 11/2019