Sandi2, thanks for reminding me that it is not a divorce that will bring the dysfunction because the Midlife Crisis Monster has already brought dysfunction to our home. Also thanks for reminding me that sometimes a second marriage can provide the stability I want for my children. All hope is not lost. You always have such profound thoughts to share.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years