You’re not reconciling if she’s asking for time and space. I would give it more time and focus on yourself and the children. Start to think about what kind of life you would like to have for you and the kids. If your W wants to be a part of it great! If she doesn’t that’s ok too.
I saw you posted on Scotty B’s thread so you know this limbo period can go on for a really long time. Ultimately you get to decide in the end how long it lasts.
