Agreed. Very valuable thing to do. I look forward to going now!
I feel like I am AMOAFWL now. There are many things I've changed about myself and I have worked hard at all this. It's worked and that's made it easier for me to continue doing it.
There will be a time soon when we need to meet at the house to clear stuff and decide final bits like who gets what from the kitchen, shed, etc. (in other words, lots of minor items that weren't worth putting on the finance order). Probably soon. I know that I will be confident and positive when it happens. Previously I was worrying about how I might come across, but now I think I'm going to just do it and be content.
I stay up to date on a guy named Mike Posner who is pretty cool. He walked across America last year, got bit by a venomous snake, and is climbing mountains now. Your post reminded of his saying:
KEEP GOING!
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It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
