U,

do your thing, state your opinions, let her deal with the you guys "not being on the same page".

There's a lot of clinical talk, overthinking, and psychological euphemisms in your post.

Simplify. Be you. Don't be what everyone tells you to be.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.