Eye tie - ahh. Well if it’s something you want to talk about feel free to use my thread. I have always been a bit nervous about freely posting everything - in case someone recognizes me or notices the forum and then wants to look it up. I don’t agree with a lot of what is touted here in newcomers and on midlife crises and I think maybe this forum was really unhealthy for me when my ex first left me - but I kind of like the interactive diary it offers.
All in all - I’ve been really happy about my relationship but scared that after the honeymoon phase it could become like what happened with my ex. I’m scared of someone resenting me when the relationship loses the luster of the early stages. That was really traumatic for me with my ex husband. Is that what happens in marriage and relationships over time or was that just because my ex was an alcoholic and secretly doing something where he was secretly spending 1 grand a week? That’s the deep rooted fear for me. Even though I’m surrounded by a family of committed marriages.
