Thanks LH19 thinking of it as Facilitator does help a bit.

Greenman - Where are you at in your DBing?

I have started to make sure I go out if I can, this is tough when we have 2 kids.
I haven't begged or pleaded since BD and have tried to be as upbeat as possible...other than last night.

She is also saying she needs space, this is tough as we are both (at the moment) in the same house. Albeit in separate rooms.

I am about a quarter of the way through the DR book....I have never read so quick.