I’m not an expert here but I went through a similar spot when I Got the BD a few months ago.
It was on and I couldn’t stop it. W wanted a separation on paper, tell Kids, etc. We didn’t need MC for that. It was my worst fear and I am alive still. I hate it but haven’t given up.
I don’t think the MC is going to matter either way in your case. If it was me at the time I would have gone. W was smart enough to know it wouldn’t help and maybe hurt at the time If BD.
I felt so rushed but things did slow down after. Be glad you are here early.
I begged, pleaded, moped around, etc. at first.
Let her do it and start working on yourself.
See how it goes and take it slow. I would only say To hold your ground and don’t make any really bad Decisions on emotions right now.
It’s fast right now but will slow up and you will be able to assess more clearly over time.
