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[mtb1981]

I agree 100% with hoosjim. I get the feeling you have a bad case of NGS. You need to get your gonads back and command some respect. Like he said, you don't need to be a jerk about it. Just explain to her that you've changed your mind if she asks. That it's the MBR, you're going to sleep there, and she can have the room in the basement. It was her choice to have an affair, not yours...

She cheated on you. You moved to the basement. She's still wanting to hook up with other guys. She instills fear in you with the threat and D and selling the house. She's out doing God knows what and you're scared that you'll upset her if you take the MBR back. You look weak to her and she has no respect for you. Things won't change until you stick up for yourself. She can't love you if she doesn't respect you...

And trust me, I know it's hard. It took me awhile to get my gonads back. When I did, that's when things starting changing for the better. Stop trying to appease her and start doing what's best for Drh and your daughters...