Why is it too late? It's your BR isn't it? Is your stuff still in there? Even if it's not... move the heck back in! (At least if you want to have any shot at all of this thing resolving in your favor.)
And you don't be a jerk about it-- just calmly and confidently do it. I am pretty sure others on your thread here have given you insights into how to approach that particular dynamic.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
