Divorce because I betrayed her trust - PART 7

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Had a good chat up with a close friend (also divorced). Had a long talk about his plans to become self-employed and moeny and things. He asked how I was and I updated him on things. Didn't go into huge amount of detail but mentioned what I've been up to with the gym and work mainly.

He said W 'hates me'. I didn't really dwell on that. I did talk about how I felt obliged to be perfect and always do what I could to please her, even if it made me unhappy. He said he could relate to that. His new GF is very chilled by comparison and he can talk to her about anything, and he says he "knew what I didn't want, and that really helps us get along."

He said W is "all over the place" and that "she really needs therapy." Interesting.

I had a big email from a L when I got in just now - about the finance order. 8 attachments! Cannot be bothered to look through them tonight. I'll do it tomorrow. W has to do more than me as she started the divorce. She REALLY hates filling in forms, so it'll be nice to pass it on to her when I just have to put my signature in a few places and that's it!