what DB approaches are right for me?

[AnotherStander]

How do we get this into being a sticky?

There's a separate forum for success stories, but it doesn't get updated much:

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=43&page=1

I think this needs to be updated Joe2017 & Jim1234 didn’t reconcile

That's correct, but I did note that next to their names on the list (Jim1234 "wife wants to recon" and Joe2017 "not yet success but shows how a WAS can turn around") I only included their sitches because they were such great examples of the change-of-heart a WAS can eventually have, helped in large part by good DB'ing practices by both of them.