Reading your response really fuching chaps my hide.
YES willing sharing your W with other Men is an open marriage. You’re allowing someone else in. Hence the term open. It’s despicable. She’s going to find someone else who’s stronger and not willing to share her and D you anyways so you mine as well drop your testicles and tell her no way this is happening and let the chips fall where they lie.
Sorry this is harsh but come on man!
I will give what you said a lot of thought. Thanks for your candid reply.