what DB approaches are right for me?

[oceangrl]

But GAL and detaching were huge. She went from not caring where I was or what I was doing, to constantly asking me what was wrong. I would always answer in a very upbeat "nothing is wrong, things are great". That confused the heck out of her.

If I was a woman, I would get dolled up and go out and get a coffee, or shopping at Walmart. No need to tell him where you are going or where you went.

W:"I am going out"

Yes!!! I've got to do this. I also want to go hiking on my own early saturday morning and wear my most flattering active wear.