Like I said it’s the easy way out for her. Not sure I’m wanting to make it easy for her when I may be struggling to get by for a while.
Quit thinking in those terms. Your focus should be 100% on YOU. What makes the most financial sense for you LONG TERM. Who cares if it's "easy" for her in the short term.
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She has currently stopped wearing her wedding ring and I think she is meeting up with him.
She sees herself as single now. Think about what that says about the kind of person she is, and OM is. She's a married woman pretending to be single. And OM is having an affair with a married woman. Wrap your head around that! Is that the kind of person you even want to be married to? Someone that so quickly throws away all their moral standards for what, a fling that give her some temporary fuzzy feel-good feelings? You are better than that!
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She started going back to the gym to work out. Been going with a friend from 8-9. I picked up food last night and noticed he was at the gym at 8:00. Can’t continue to live like this so it’s time.
Live like what, a love-lorn stalker? Yeah you really should quit living like that!
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Living in a small community and having this happen has finally made me feel humiliated and ashamed.
