I received the DR book yesterday. I have started reading it. Are there any quick wins (I am a slow reader)?
Current sitch, I am in the spare room, most things we have done separately, once the kids are in bed we are in separate rooms watching TV if one of us is not out. Sunday we sat down and had dinner together.
I know MC has mixed reviews on here but we spoke about this last night and she is keen to book this is asap, I don't know if is this a good thing or a bad thing. I just want to make sure we have the right counseller, as I said she doesn't want to fix it (says she doesn't love me in that way anymore) but I do.
She has plans on Friday night so I plan to go and do something on Saturday night, not sure what yet.
I am still highly emotional (it comes in waves) but I am managing to keep it together when I am around her and the kids.
At the moment we are just doing everything separately, which I am find soooo tough, but then she did want space to work out who she is.
