Need more advice: a very close friend suggested that I mention briefly to H that the children are very aware that he is not coming home many nights. My inclination is no, I should not mention this because last time I mentioned the kids, H claimed I was trying to manipulate him by mentioning how D would affect our kids. Surely these wayward spouses realize that their bad behavior impacts their kids. I assume H just does not care - the same as he does not care about my feelings.

Last edited by HesAble; 01/22/20 01:03 AM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years