KML - I want closure, which I know is not possible. And, yes, I would love the satisfaction of letting him know that I know he’s a cheater. But, Iike Ginger suspects, I know he’ll turn it on me and gaslight as he always did when confronted.
And sadly, I think my kids do know because they can see how fast it all happened and connect dots.
Have some quick thoughts, Ha... 1. and most important here: you are in a rare position in that your exh is following Big Daddy Exh's example right down to the chick's name ... so you already know how this is going to end. How long was Big Daddy Exh married to the OW? How did that relationship play out? Betting this will go in a similar direction
2. The best and most worthwhile effort is spent on your own life. You've already given this crazy person more time and space than he deserves. While I completely understand wanting to let him know he got away with nothing, the best revenge is to hit him where it hurts most: live your life grandly, spectacularly, and of course, get any and all monies owed to you.
Much love, -B.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
