Quote: So I owe it to them to at least turn over every stone in the search for intimacy.
You do, indeed, CeMar. Be prepared to read the entire book at least twice, and spend at least 6 months trying very hard to implement it before giving up on it. In the meantime, don't worry so much about "what if". Just concentrate on turning over those stones.
Mojo, having an affair is NOT a differentiated act - it is an act of fusion, because you are usurping your partner's choices (i.e. not leaving them any). YOU get to choose BOTH "monogamy" and "having it all" - your partner doesn't get to choose either...
