No body’s a perfect DBer. You’ll get there. But don’t beat yourself up over it in the mean time. Every body slips. We all need support. So much if this is counterintuitive to most people’s natural “factory” settings. Trust me it had taken everything in me to not set his crap on fire on the front law or post on social media what a dumpster fire of a human being he is right now and all his little gf’s contact info. My factory presets are pretty angry. But even the little bit of sadness, begging and angry i let him see in the beginning got pretty visceral reactions. And they were mostly compromised of disgust and pity. And I want neither of those things from him. Im sure you don’t either.
