H does not know I have seen his comments on the sleazy woman's social media posts. Should I let him know I have seen them? I assume this goes against the no-snooping suggestion from DB rules.
Leave it. Just leave it alone. They look at it as an invasion of privacy. Ridiculous I know but that’s the view in their eyes. You’ll get “I can have eyes can’t I?” “Can’t I have friends?” He’ll point out guys in your social media that you went to grade school with and don’t actually even interact with. My H and OW are brazenly interacting on FB to the point HIS friend reached out and asked if I was ok. Deactivating my FB has been the best thing for my mental health recently. I know it’s happening. I know where he’s going and what he’s doing. But I’m not watching him put the needle in his arm so to speak. I won’t do it any more because while it kills me, it killing me means jack to him right now.
Ok, thanks. I figured it would be bad news to bring this up with him. I haven't seen the angry "Midlife Crisis Monster" in a while and would like to avoid him if at all possible. Sigh.
I am still reading DR so it is likely that the book will get me straight on a lot of my issues.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
