We have a lot of similarities in our situations. You did great in this conversation and keep that in mind for future conversations as well. It's a marathon not a sprint.
The fact that she informed you of the counsellor tells me that she's not fully done. Remember what detached means too....go back and read the intro part on detachment. It's not to be cold and heartless. Keep positive and show her your emotional strength and self-respect.
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BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
