Well we met, I will say not a lot came of the conversation. It was pretty much just rehashing what we have already discussed in regards to splitting things, just with some more concrete numbers. No official paperwork has been filled out or anything. Took LH19's advice to just make a statement that I do not want this divorce, but I won't stand in her way and I am moving forward. She said she knows that, and she started to tear up but held it back. Guilt maybe? She still wants the divorce at this point...
I just kept calm and the whole thing was over fairly quickly, she did bring over dinner and offered to bring me something, but I declined. When she started asking some personal more friend type questions I just said I would let her finish eating and went in another room for a bit.
After we finished discussing the assets she asked if there was anything else we needed to talk about. I'll tell you it was hard to not start talking about "us" again, but I just said no. Then as she was leaving, she said she knows I probably don't care, but she did start seeing a counselor to figure herself out.
