Thanks AS,

I know how that sounds about the female friends but W knows them all and really wouldn´t mind, I have known them for close to 20 years. One of the girls husband can be heard in the video laughing at my pug being adored by them all. If W and I had been together still she would have loved seeing that video and would have shared it. But I´m still glad I didn´t of course, it would open the door to her contacting me every day.

You´re right, it´s not like me to think about someone this much that I haven´t even met yet. Hope this isn´t some side effect of being separated for a while. I´ll see how it feels after we´ve met.

Thanks smile


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019