Quote: I guess you could tell her that if she doesn't work towards change you'll stay married for the kids sake but you'll just be roommates and you won't have any love or affection to throw her way...
That choice really sucks. Just my opinion (recently arrived at), but in that case I'd think you'd want to think long and hard about what such an arrangement would teach the kids, and how that might affect their own ability to sustain a relationship...
