Well, it has been over 2 months since BD and H still spends nights out, returning in the a.m./p.m. I still find this extremely disrespectful. Either he just does not care about my feelings at all or he is so far gone in terms of mental state that he believes he is free to do whatever because he told me he does not want to work on the marriage. We are still intimate which complicates matters, but I feel it meets my needs so I continue. I realize it is just sex for him and am trying to think of it as just sex for me, although I still love him (I do not like him at all).
I still check his social media (I know I should stop) and see the inappropriate comments he makes on one sleazy woman's posts in particular. She could definitely be the OW or he may be working on making her the OW. Makes me want to puke.
Last edited by HesAble; 01/20/2008:14 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
