Quote: If history is any indication of what will occur, W will promise to "step up to the plate" but nothing will happen. She'll wait for me to initiate every move for sex to happen. Her claim to be willing is where she hides.
I would say that you need to be more specific in your requests. Is that what you were getting at in your first post? I think requesting specific sexual acts of your W might be a little too challenging at this stage of the game. How about requesting that she challenge herself to bring something new to the bed for your weekly encounters. Buy her a bunch of books if necessary and ask her to find something/anything that sounds appealing to her and let you know what it is. If she's too shy to tell you directly she could just put a bookmark at the appropriate page. This puts the responsibility for variety on her and also could lead to you learning what sort of thing might interest her.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
