Quote: If history is any indication of what will occur, W will promise to "step up to the plate" but nothing will happen. She'll wait for me to initiate every move for sex to happen. Her claim to be willing is where she hides.
So then that's where the issue needs to be. Your boundary is around having her initiate. You need to be very clear on this - you're going to wait for HER to initiate. You won't be nagging her about it, but she needs to be very clear that a lack of nagging does not equate to acceptance. If she agrees to initiate, and doesn't, then it won't be long before the screaming silence on the subject will force her to confront herself. You need to remain very calm, at least outwardly, and show her that you are standing up to your end, and she needs to stand up to her end...
