tim47,

I have 2 chapters of PM left and will finish it this weekend. I don't have any plans for a convo before I finish and sort things out in my head. This is just to get on the right track as I prepare.

If history is any indication of what will occur, W will promise to "step up to the plate" but nothing will happen. She'll wait for me to initiate every move for sex to happen. Her claim to be willing is where she hides.

HP spoke to my sitch on another post when she said that if you don't believe your S is being honest about what they say, then it gets difficult to know what to do. Consequently, I wouldn't believe my W if she said that she is willing. I've heard it too many times before.

Thanks for the good advice. I appreciate it.

Mike