Throw the clutch in, G! You JUST started talking to this guy yesterday, right? I mean how far out from vanilla do you want to be after exchanging texts for a day? Maybe he’s trying to be a gentleman. Maybe he had something going on and couldn’t be as fully engaged as you were. Maybe he’s a bad texter/phone person.
I know that I’m by far the minority opinion on this board in saying this but this situation right here is why I DON’T see a problem texting back and forth for a few days, maybe even a week, before setting a date. I wouldn’t go any longer than that, but it seems like you went from throwing in the towel on OLD completely to picking it back up when you matched with this guy and then threw it down again, despite saying you have no expectations, after texting back and forth a bit. I get your sense of urgency, but at this rate, you’ll drive yourself nuts soon.
Like DejaVu, I’m praying for you!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
