Nothing good will come of it HW. I agree with what Andrew says. In my sitch, my XH is also marrying his affair partner. When I first found out about his engagement, it definitely bothered me...but that feeling faded and now I don’t care. As long as she treats my children well, and she apparently does, that’s all that matters. I am fully facing forward these days and it feels good. There is no point in looking back. Focus on the present and on enjoying your time with your new man. Don’t go down the road of resentment. It will only hurt you in the end. (((HUGS))