you say some things with a fair degree of certainty. Nothing is certain anymore.
I'd believe what your W's friend told you and act accordingly.
Detach. Don't let her words or actions affect you.
Believe nothing she says and only half of what she does.
Cut out the doormat behavior.
Do not tell an 8 year old that mom is having an affair.
Prolly no reason to tell your boss either unless some crazy stuff happens.
I can't believe she's living in your parent's house and cheating on you with your supposed "friend". If you aren't morally opposed to divorce then kick her out and move on with life.
Make yourself scarce around the house. Do not initiate conversations with her. Do not tell her "how you feel". Just go do your own thing.
Last edited by ovrrnbw; 01/19/2006:05 AM.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
