Well, I guess I didn’t give up. I haven’t been having any luck at all and I swiped a whole ton. Can’t get past the first message, everyone is in Manhattan, everyone still wants kids!
But I didn’t give up and I’ve been chatting with this guy who lives about 30 min away in a row my ex and I moved to when we got married. His profile said he has been single a few years to concentrate on raising his daughters and now that they are teens he is looking for the missing piece to his puzzle. The fact alone that he took the time to raise his daughters instead of jumping into a new R. And he doesn’t have a firm custody schedule as him and his ex are flexible and pretty much have their kids according to who can better accommodate the kids schedules. He said they are 14&16 and into their friends more than anything now. This is all a better ideal situation for me.
He was quick to make a date too. Next Friday. We will see if it actually goes through.
I have zero expectations. I just don’t care.
And dejavu, I hope something as awesome as what has happened to you happens to me. I love what’s going on now for you.
