Because my XH left with No contact, I dont have accurate time lines he does not keep in touch with his family either..
But I can tell you I received calls/messages over the years from various sources that their M was in shambles and both very unhappy
They are both addicts still will no recovery, and A few years back a few close friends of XH called and spoke to him, upon his request, several times.. They all confirmed to me, he wanted out of the M
But his once best friends could not help him They felt that I he was unreachable , a real mess and his OW wife was absolutely nuts they all let him go
I soon heard they soon got D, but Im not sure if they are back together
In My situation, I would --never say never, but I am very doubtful XH will ever find himself again
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow