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Because my XH left with No contact, I dont have accurate time lines
he does not keep in touch with his family either..

But I can tell you I received calls/messages over the years from various sources
that their M was in shambles and both very unhappy

They are both addicts still will no recovery, and A few years back a few close friends of XH called and spoke to him, upon his request,
several times..
They all confirmed to me, he wanted out of the M

But his once best friends could not help him
They felt that I he was unreachable , a real mess and his OW wife was absolutely nuts
they all let him go


I soon heard they soon got D, but Im not sure if they are back together

In My situation, I would --never say never,
but I am very doubtful XH will ever find himself again


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow