Thanks all.

Pax - been thinking about your armchair diagnosis and yes, it makes sense they would be looking for legitimacy. Personally, I think no one attended because they don’t have many friends. She has just a few contacts per social media, seems to have no family. And his own kids did not attend as it was “private!”

Yes, KML he is the one who had food/poisoning issues. Several people say she looks very much like me but rougher and sort of unhealthy.

Job, yes, I know. Patterns are uncanny.

Andrew - hah! Love your wit as always. But before it becomes compost doesn’t it still come to the light?!?! Chicken or the egg question!

Peace - just curious, how long did that marriage last before they divorced? And was she the first OW?


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced