If the food sounds good have some or take some for tomorrow and thank him
its not easy many of of totally stressed and walked on eggshells
put the focus on you ask ...what can I do to take care of me? a walk , a book, alone time, a nap, the gym, prayer and meditation, a plan with a friend?
be kind and friendly and cordial but go about your life
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