I just re-read my comment. I know 3 months is nothing, week and a half is a ridiculous amount of time but I had to sit there on the phone yesterday listening to how I have destroyed our married, reacted to our domestic separation in a way that she should have called the police and now I am harassing her. I really cannot understand where all this anger is coming from but wow, WOW!

My W ended up yesterday saying we will only communicate over the email, all will remain a legal proof and that she has evidence that last 4 times I did not manage to fly on thursday for visitation (for those of you who know my sitch my W left to south spain and we were living in Germany and I have my job still here and could only find direct flights on Fridays) that would be valid for her to gain sole custody. Again, do not believe anything they say and 50% of what they do but WOW. Obviously she totally brought me down yesterday, I was a wreck of nerves after this conversation and I ended up going to the hotel room for a bath and to sleep. She needs to cool down and I need to detach further, there is trust to regain, relationship to renew or topic to speak about that would bring us closer. How can I best recover after this big pushback?

thanks a lot guys! GAL and LRT are on again!
hugs! Paco


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Me 29 W:29
M: 5yrs T:10yrs
S:6 yrs S:1 yr
BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19
Sep: 10/27/19