Originally Posted by HaWho
What is done in the shadows eventually comes to the light.
Or becomes compost. I think my ex is still working on keeping everything buried even though she lives with OM (as far as I know). She has her narrative so I understand. Maybe after all these years she actually believes it. Dunno.
Originally Posted by Pax_luv
While it is unfortunate, I think some mlcrs have no choice but to marry their APs. Their actions are so shameful (whether they feel shame or not) that they have to prove to everyone around them they made the right choice in blowing up their lives.
Agree with this quite a lot. I would also add that for many of them, there's not a lot of other choices out there either of people who have the shaky enough morals to have an affair along with the fact that most MLCr sorts tend to degrade physically and financially. There are of course exceptions to this. I remember musing when she was in the middle of her affair and keeping me hanging on the "who'd want her" and "he'll get tired of her and her nonsense soon enough". Turned out I was wrong though.

I expect that things will be very very tense for the man formerly known as Mr. HaWho and more so for his new Mrs as she struggles to keep hold of him and pretzel herself in to whatever it is that he thinks he wants that day.


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