What is done in the shadows eventually comes to the light.
Oh, I love that. It’s so true.
I’m glad the conversation with your boys went well. Everyone is now in the know.
XH’s W does sound broken. Two people desperate for happiness, and unable find the way.
And her with the same unusual name is an interesting coincidence. Well not completely coincidental; her name is just another aspect that XH was driven to. Subconsciously, unknowingly, recreating his childhood dynamic.
It’s quite remarkable this process, the crisis, the path MLCer walks. Once the LBS gets beyond the pain and grief and sees what they witnessed. It is horribly traumatic to everyone involved. One side demonstrates the fragility of the mind, truth, and reality. The other side is an absolutely amazing display of how resilient, compassionate, and forgiving the human spirit can actually be.
Give it all to God.
You are very much choosing better not bitter.
Originally Posted by HaWho
I woke up this morning and resolved to make the next 5 years of my life amazing. This is not just for me, but for my kids. I am going to show them that while there are those lose the plot in their midlife others get wise and shift into high gear.
And years later they will remember that about me and I will tell them THAT is their DNA.
Amen to that.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
