22 Years Gone Part 2

[DS9]

Hey roo

How you doing buddy?

Well written email mate but I’ve got a couple of 2x4’s which I’m swinging your way with respect and the best intentions.

First, take advice on getting kids involved in coming up with arrangements with the other parent. Here in oz that’s a huge no no, as is unwittingly putting them in the position of being messengers

Second, by saying it’s up to XW and your daughter to come up with arrangements you expose yourself to being sidelined and not having input, and having that ‘it’s not my call ‘ position used against you if it goes to court.

Third, like I said in my above post speak to your L and don’t diy legal stuff.

Fourth, parenting arrangements are adult issues to be communicated by adults. If you can’t communicate with XW then get your L to do it.

Fifth why are these things up in the air and being discussed if you have a binding parenting agreement? All this should have been covered.

I hope I’m not being harsh mate, but I care for what you’re going through and want to help you .

Cheers ds