K, For me, I don't like the idea of being a sitting duck and waiting for her to file to put me on the defensive. If you believe D is just a piece of paper (as I now do), and your spouse seems as dug-in as mine appears to be, then you need to decide what is best for you in your situation.
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This helps and proves Jobs point about how unique each situation truly is whether it’s the MLCr or the LBS...I see and understand your POV WMLC but In my sitch I feel the exact opposite in that H stated at BD he didn’t have a voice and has never made decisions for himself ....so part of my journey and my standing is a firm no go on in anyway helping him to progress this along. I will comply ... it I will not lead ANYTHING.
My H was unstoppable and couldn’t wait to tell everybody either Job ... I’m disappointed in how some people just accepted his words as completely reasonable and on we go with life....
Job - can I ask why H went into angry mode if he drafted up the papers? is this just what mlcrs do?
Thx DnJ sorry to hear how very abrupt everything went for you.
