Oh. And my kids did not attend his wedding. It was “private” they said.

Uh huh. Real private for all the wrong reasons. What is done in the shadows eventually comes to the light.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced