Cross countries separation EU

[Pack_19]

hi all,

I just talked to my W on the phone about next weekend with the children. She has been talking again about how she is giving up too much and how even my parents ask for too much time with the children. I tried to validate and remain calm, I told her our time with them is all that matters and not to speak to me like with the contempt that she does. After this she replied that since we dont have a relationship anymore I have no right to talk about how she speaks to me and for some reason she ended up shouting that our relationship is dead and nothing is ever going to happen between us and that it was me who destroyed everything.

Now I should be detaching and this should not hurt me but you all know how it feels. The person you love the most is there shouting to you that your relationship is dead, that she has a life of her own now and she threatens to never ever call you again. What is the point of going throw this? Why am I trying to protect something no longer exists?

My W is dead set on the fact that we have no future. It has been a week and a half of no contact, I thought she would have calmed down a bit since then, it seems I was wrong.