Has anyone had any experience with their MLCr announcing to everyone (friends and family) right away that they are getting a S/D?
Oh yeah!
XW dropped the big surprise bomb at Thanksgiving Day supper. Me, our four kids, Oldest S’s GF, and parents all in shock as she announced her plan to through away her kids, house, her half of pension, everything. And two month later it was all done and legal.
Just focus on you and your kids. Let H be. If he is going to fast track, he will. If you need financial protection or security, deal with that issue.
You are early into this situation. I know how bad the feelings are. And even with everything all settled I still felt bad. Please realize a separation or divorce doesn’t fix/heal you. It didn’t fix/heal me either. Your healing is separate from S/D.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
