22 Years Gone Part 2

[rooskers]

Here was my response to her last email:

XW,

As always, the organization, coordination, and fulfillment of your visitation weekend plans with D13 are between you and her. I do not influence how or what you do during that time. This is not my role. I will, of course, have D13 ready at the agreed upon pickup time. Please communicate or have D13 let me know if you and D13 agree to any changes to your visitation time so I can be available as needed.

You do not need my permission to attend D13's award luncheon and have the right to ask D13 how she feels about it if you so choose. You have always had the freedom to pursue your interests and manage your freee time as you see fit. Now that we are divorced, I hope you continue to feel empowered to do so, without any perceived negative influence from anyone else. You have the unique opportunity to truly find out who you are as an individual. I wish you only the best.

Rooskers


I thought I did well in making it clear she is in her charge of her time with D13 and not me. In the second part I wanted to counter her continued belief that I am the one in control of her life and also to give her a kind of friendly goodbye. I truly hope she does the work to find out who she is and wish her the best.