You are still trying to apply logic to an emotional problem. Don't.
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Let me give you some counsel, bastard,“ Lannister said. „Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strenght. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.
You can choose to let this "hurt" you or to consider yourself iron in the fire, becoming stronger. Whichever you choose, you're right.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
