Met with my IC who has recommended that I tell H when he is doing something I like/miss to encourage more of it (e.g., when I see bits of his old self peeking through the veil of the MLC alien). I am still reading the DR book but I am thinking this goes against DB rules. It seems that praising his good behavior will bring on rebellion like it does for an unruly teenager (it is so uncool for mommy to actually like what I am doing so I will either try never do this thing she likes again or I will go do something I know she absolutely hates to ensure her she does not have any control over my behavior).
This is exhausting...
Last edited by HesAble; 01/16/2006:19 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
