I'm desperately trying to detach and not over analyze but we're on to day 2 of him doing this, whatever this is. I went out last night. I was very clear I was going to dinner with our neighbor. But I let her come home with out me. We live in a large duplex. So when she came home he'd know. She's the upstairs neighbor. After she went back home. I went to meet a different friend at the bar she works at. It was dead so I had some coffee and just chit chatted. But I wanted to make sure I was out just as late as he was Tuesday. I get home around midnight he's not there. But the TV was still on in the living room/his current bedroom. My D 17 was confused when I asked when he left thinking the promise of feeding the kids and spending time with them was all abandoned to go "out." He was dozing watching TV after 11 according to her. He did take them out for dinner. Had an extra kid with them, one of the girl's friends. Picked the friend up and dropped her off. Apparently had an amazing night with the kids. But wasn't there when I got home. This is the real kicker. Other than the 8:45am very short text exchange he and I had yesterday we didn't speak once. 9:45am today I get a text about how he got 15lbs of bacon and he'll be dividing and freezing it, oh and he'll make BLT's for dinner. I've let it sit so far. I'll respond eventually. But what is going on!? Seriously. If he were a jerk all the time this would all be so much easier.
