My xh announced right away that we were separated. He was all giddy and excited about it. He couldn't wait to announce to the world that he was a free bird and could do whatever he wanted. Once he got the draft separation papers, he shut down and didn't say too much to people about it because he was then in a very angry mode.
Kindly, the situations that are posted here are very similar, but you have to keep in mind that each situation is very unique because of the MLCer involved. You can read the postings here, listen to the advice, but take away only what you think will help you in your situation.
Only you can decide what is best for you and your family and only you will know when you have had enough.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
